Respect

Who we are

Working to end domestic abuse

We are a pioneering domestic abuse organisation developing safe, effective work with perpetrators, male victims and young people who use violence.

Respect is the UK charity stopping perpetrators of domestic abuse. We want a world where everyone is free from domestic abuse. Where it is never ok to control, harm or cause fear. Where those who perpetrate domestic abuse are stopped, held to account and given the chance to change. We will not stop, until domestic abuse stops.

Respect was established to focus on perpetrators of domestic abuse, and this, including our vital work with young people who cause harm, remains our key priority. Alongside this work, we deliver expert support to male victims of domestic abuse. Everything we do is shaped and driven by our values: we are pioneering, collaborative, accountable, and respectful.

Our culture and values

We want a world where everyone is free from domestic abuse. Where it is never ok to control, harm or cause fear. Where those who perpetrate domestic abuse are stopped, held to account and given the chance to change. 

Our Mission:

We work with our members, partners and alliesto stop the harms done by those who perpetrate domestic abuse. With innovative practice, robust research and quality data, we build evidence of what works, promote safe, effective practice and drive high standards. We use our voice, in collaboration with others, to call for a response to domestic abuse that matches the scale of the problem. We will not stop, until domestic abuse stops.

Equality, diversity and inclusion policy

Respect continues to be committed to being an anti-racist organisation and to delivering true equity, diversity and inclusion (EDI). When we started this work, we initially developed an action plan to take improvements forward.  We soon realised that we needed to pause and make time to listen to and learn from our colleagues, taking a careful and thoughtful approach. This means we haven’t done everything, and there is still more to do, but we are ensuring that we carefully navigate a sensitive issue, bringing colleagues with us as we go. 

We made several pledges in 2020:

Strategy

Our strategy has a clear commitment to embedding EDI in everything we do, from our policies to our culture and practice. We are developing as we go, with the Anti-Racism Commitments in our new EDI policy underpinning all our activities. 

Defining Racism

When we started our work we focused on the experience of Black and Brown colleagues. We have since widened our remit to include all those experiencing racism, oppression and discrimination. We are using the definition of racism in the Equality Act as our starting point.  

Training

We delivered Anti-Racism training to the whole organisation. We identified that some groups were not being addressed in this training, so we are developing a plan to ensure we are responsive to the needs of all groups. This work will begin in 2022/23.  

Leadership and Governance

We consulted the VAWG sector guidance and used this as a benchmark to assess our governance.  We now have an ongoing discussion with board about our EDI work and have improved our organisational reporting. We continue to run our Anti-Racism working group, and in Jan 2023 this will become our EDI Steering Group, consulting on all of our work including our new EDI Action plan.  This will ensure we are taking an intersectional approach to the work. 

Work with members

In the 4th edition of the Respect Standard, we have increased the requirements that services must fulfil to achieve accreditation. There is a strong focus on employing a diverse workforce and being more proactive and systematic in meeting the needs of service users. Through the Drive partnership, we delivered the pilot of a workforce development and leadership programme for individuals working in the perpetrator sector from minoritised communities, and a programme for sector leaders to help them develop the skills, techniques, knowledge and confidence to support their staff members from these groups.  

Allyship

We have a vision to be a true ally to our partners and stakeholders that work with Black and minoritised groups. As we are not a by-and-for organisation, we have committed to delivering culturally competent interventions and are working with others to ensure we achieve these objectives. We will ensure that, in our role as a membership organisation, we are amplifying the work of by-and-for organisations, forming fair partnerships, and ensuring equal access to networks and resources. 

This is very much a journey, but it is an ongoing and proactive one. As an organisation, we are listening to our staff team, the Board, our members and our partners, to pursue transformative change both internally and externally.