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CONTEXT
An estimated 12,000 men are raped every year and 76,000 sexually abused or assaulted. Yet just 4% of men will tell someone. Of those who do, it takes on average 26 years to do so.
Survivors UK provides specialist support to (cis and trans*) men and boys, and to non-binary people, who have been raped, sexually assaulted or abused. Our aim is to help any man, boy, or non-binary person, to have the confidence to tell someone what’s happened to them, and to know that it’s OK to seek help. When they do, we want to ensure they have access to the right support so they can deal with the impact of their experiences.
We provide emotional support, information and signposting to survivors and anyone worried about someone they know, through a national website and webchat service (open till 8pm most evenings). Last year, 2,600 people contacted us via our webchat services and social media.
In London, we are the only organisation providing specialist services for men and boys, including individual counselling and therapeutic groupwork, available till 9pm six days a week. Across London, we provide the capital’s only Independent Sexual Advisor (ISVA) Service that helps men and boys through the criminal justice system.
ABOUT THE ROLE
This is an exciting role at Survivors UK which combines counselling and practical support, specifically to the (circa) 150 people who refer themselves for individual counselling with us each year. You will work specifically with young people aged 13+ and people from Black, Asian and Multi-Heritage communities who have experienced sexual violence.
The people served include those with clinical mental health diagnoses, drug and alcohol dependencies, at risk of suicide, homelessness or involved in the sex industry. You will need to be a highly skilled counsellor with experience of dealing with very vulnerable clients, willing to work flexibly and on your own initiative. Importantly, you will be a compassionate person, able to blend therapeutic work with practical support and care.
Main responsibilities include:
- Provide counselling and practical support interventions to boys, men, trans people and non-binary people from the BAM community who have been raped, sexually abused or assaulted with high levels of need and who are most vulnerable.
- Deliver counselling interventions by phone, video calling and face-to-face with clients 13+ years old.
- With clients, develop action plans to help them address emotional and practical needs and ensure clients can engage with a flexible service.
- An ability, interest and commitment to working and developing a therapeutic approach that is culturally attuned to Black, Asian and Multi and Dual Heritage clients.
- Maintain accurate and timely client case notes, ensuring adherence to confidentiality, safeguarding and data protection procedures.
- Support the monitoring and reporting to funders on the development and delivery of the service.
This post is subject to an enhanced DBS Clearance
PURPOSE
- Provide counselling and practical support interventions to boys, men and non-binary people who have been raped, sexually abused or assaulted with high levels of need and who are most vulnerable.
- Collaborate with clients to discover what their needs are from our service
- Support the monitoring and reporting to funders on the development and delivery of the service.
KEY OUTCOMES
- Survivors who are highly vulnerable and distressed will have access to a service that meets their needs, with improvements in their overall health and wellbeing.
- A reduction in harmful behaviours, such as less suicidal ideation, reduced drug & alcohol use, reduced incidences of self-harm.
- Survivors who are leading chaotic lifestyles report feeling more stable, better able to cope and better supported.
RESPONSIBILITIES
- Service Delivery
- Deliver counselling interventions by phone, video calling and face-to-face
- Maintain accurate and timely client case notes, ensuring adherence to confidentiality, safeguarding and data protection procedures.
- With clients, develop action plans to help them address emotional and practical needs and ensure clients can engage with a flexible service.
- Provide regular and timely communications with clients so that they are encouraged to remain with the service.
- Attend clinical supervision.
- Liaison and Promotion
- Maintain good working relationships with other support services associated with the client.
- Monitoring, evaluation and dissemination
- Collect and accurately record one-to-one contact data, including presenting issues, client notes, socio-economic demographics, using Survivors UK Salesforce database.
- Monitor individual client’s progress through the outcomes monitoring framework.
- Where appropriate, and within safeguarding and data protection policies, collate qualitative client stories for reporting back to funders, evidencing need and service user opinion.
- Ensure all clients are aware of and have access to the organisation’s complaints policy.
- General Duties
- Be responsible for administrative functions associated with the role, including accurate record keeping and filing.
- Provide input and comment on the development of Survivors UK policies and procedures and ensure you follow established procedures.
- As a member of a small team, contribute to the development of new initiatives and services in response to client need.
The post-holder will be required to carry out additional duties from time to time. Such duties will be commensurate with the role.
Survivors UK is an equal opportunities employer.
PERSON SPECIFICATION
Experience and qualifications
- A BACP, UKCP or BABCP accredited counsellor, psychotherapist or CBT practitioner.
- Completed at least 3 parts of EMDR training. Potential for completion of the training to be offered with the role
- At least 2-years’ experience of working with highly vulnerable clients in a counselling and/or support service.
- Knowledge of trauma informed practice
- Demonstrable caseload management, with experience of undertaking initial counselling assessments.
- Experience of using creative approaches such as art, drama or play when working therapeutically with children and young people.
- Proven track record in helping clients who are experiencing high levels of distress and/or chaotic lifestyles, to improve their health and wellbeing.
- Efficient and accurate use of outcomes monitoring frameworks, such as CORE, Outcomes Star, or similar
Skills, knowledge and competences
- Strong understanding of the experiences, needs and impact of rape, sexual abuse or assault on (cis and trans*) men and boys, and on non-binary people
- Self-motivated and a self-starter: high level of confidence to develop and deliver a new service.
- A mature, calm and empathic manner: able to engage with clients who have challenging needs and deal with highly emotional and stressful situations.
- Strong communication skills: able to build trusting relationships and rapport with clients and interact and engage effectively with external agencies.
- Adherence to confidentiality and boundary policies and practices.
- High degree of flexibility in approach to working with clients and the wider team.
- Positive attitude and willing to contribute to developments, improvements and changes more broadly within Survivors UK.
- Competent administrator and highly organised: committed to maintaining accurate client records and reporting on performance.
- Demonstrable commitment to equal opportunities, with a non-judgemental approach to helping men, non-binary and trans people
- A commitment to pursuing professional excellence, personal development and learning.
Please apply with your CV and a covering letter that explains how you meet the person specification.
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Family Support Coordinator
We are looking for a skilled and motivated male Family Support Coordinator to deliver targeted, high-quality support to fathers and male caregivers across Stroud and Gloucester.
This is an opportunity to join a supportive and purpose-driven team where your work will make a direct difference to families across Gloucestershire.
Please note that due to the nature of this role, we can only accept male applicants.
Position: Male Family Support Coordinator (Dad Matters)
Location: Stroud and Gloucester/Hybrid (covering hospital, family hub and community settings)
Hours: Part-time, 33 hours per week
Salary: £32,597 pro rata (£29,337 actual)
Contract: Permanent
Closing Date: 8th July 2026. This job opportunity may close early if we find an appropriate candidate before the closing date.
Join a local charity supporting families with young children through home visiting, group work, one-to-one support and targeted projects.
The Role
Dad Matters Gloucestershire is part of the wider family support offer. It focuses on improving the wellbeing, confidence and engagement of fathers and male caregivers, particularly during pregnancy, early parenthood and times of family stress or transition.
This role will focus on engaging fathers who may be less likely to access traditional services, including through outreach, hospital-based engagement, family hub delivery, one-to-one support and home visiting. You will build and manage a targeted caseload aligned to family hubs and areas of highest need and bring specialist knowledge of father engagement whilst contributing to the ongoing development of Dad Matters practice across the organisation.
This role requires flexibility, including regular out-of-hours work, to ensure fathers can access support at times and in places that work for them.
Key accountabilities include:
- Deliver high-quality, targeted support to fathers and male caregivers
- Lead outreach and engagement activity with fathers and underrepresented groups
- Act as a specialist in father engagement within the wider family support team
- Contribute to the effective delivery and development of Dad Matters across the locality
- Work in partnership with local services to strengthen support for fathers and families
About You
We are looking for someone who understands the importance of supporting fathers and male caregivers, and who can build trust with people who may be unsure about asking for help. You will be confident working with families, able to manage a caseload, and comfortable delivering support in a range of settings including hospitals, family hubs, homes and community spaces.
You will need to be flexible, relational and practical, with the ability to work some evenings or weekends to reach fathers at the right time.
You will bring:
- Experience of working with families, fathers, parents or caregivers
- Experience of providing outreach support to families or individuals
- An understanding of the challenges families can face during pregnancy, early parenthood and family life
- Strong relationship-building skills
- Confidence in outreach, engagement and partnership working
- Good safeguarding awareness
- The ability to keep accurate records and manage a caseload
- A commitment to inclusive, non-judgemental and strengths-based support
Please note this role is only open to male applicants. Our client is committed to equality of opportunity and encourage applications from all sectors of the community. In light of the nature of work, the candidate’s gender is considered to be an occupational requirement in accordance with Schedule 9 (part 1) of the Equality Act 2010.
About the Organisation
Join a voluntary organisation committed to promoting the welfare of families with at least one child under five years of age. Trained home-visiting volunteers offer regular friendship, emotional, and practical support to help families experiencing a challenging time in their lives. The service is unique and also offers free support peer groups, antenatal, postnatal, and perinatal mental health services.
You may also have experience in areas such as Family Support Worker, Family Support Officer, Parent Support, Family Case Worker, Parent Case Worker, Family Outreach Worker.
Please note this role is advertised by the recruitment agency acting for the client, Not For Profit People. #INDNFP
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Qualified Play Therapist
Location: South Hampshire Women’s Refuge, Southampton
Salary: £15,806 per annum
Vacancy Type: Permanent, Part Time (20 hours per week)
Make a real difference to the lives of children and young people affected by domestic abuse.
At Stonewater, we believe every child deserves a safe space to heal and thrive. We’re looking for a compassionate, creative and qualified Play Therapist (known internally as Play Therapy Worker) to join our Domestic Abuse Services team. This is a unique opportunity to use your skills to empower children and young people through therapeutic play and person-centred support.
What you’ll do
- Deliver age-appropriate, strengths-based play therapy to children and young people living in our refuge accommodation.
- Use a variety of creative techniques – from storytelling and art to music and role play – to help themselves and build resilience.
- Work with the children, young people and families development workers to create individual support plans and work closely with parents to create safe, nurturing environments.
- Collaborate with multi-agency partners and contribute to safeguarding best practice.
- Play a key role in shaping our children and family support programme.
What we’re looking for
- A recognised Play Therapy qualification and registration with a relevant professional body (e.g., UKCP, BACP, BAPT).
- Experience delivering outcomes-focused therapy to children and young people.
- Strong understanding of child development, attachment theory, and the impact of domestic abuse.
- Ability to work creatively, flexibly, and in a non-judgemental way.
- Excellent communication and partnership skills.
Ready to make an impact?
Apply today and help us create safe, supportive spaces where children and young people can flourish.
**This post is restricted to female applicants only under the provisions of the Equality Act 2010, Schedule 9, Part 1. The role is based within a female-only domestic abuse refuge, where the provision of services requires a female worker to ensure the privacy, dignity, and safety of residents.
Discover Stonewater:
Stonewater have 20+ years’ experience delivering refuge, safe accommodation and community based domestic abuse services. Our services include Women and Children’s Refuges, LGBTQ+ Safe Space, a South Asian Women’s Refuge and dispersed accommodation to support those that are unable to access traditional Refuges such as male survivors, those with pets and those facing multiple and complex disadvantage. Our dispersed model of safe accommodation ensures equal access for all.
Stonewater is a leading housing provider. We manage around 40,000 homes, serving 93,000 survivors across our portfolio of affordable properties for general rent, shared ownership and sale, alongside specialist accommodation, with an ambitious house-building programme.
Our mission is to provide quality homes and services for people whose needs are not met by the open market.
We’re looking for like-minded people to join our team of over 800 talented colleagues who embody our values of being ethical, ambitious, passionate, agile and commercial, as well as people who want to make a difference and transform people’s lives.
We are a Disability Confident Employer and working towards accreditation for becoming a Disability Confident Leader, which allows us to record and report on disability, mental health and wellbeing in the workplace to better support our colleagues. We have also achieved accreditation for being an Advanced Employer for Investing in Ethnicity Maturity Matrix. We are committed to being a Menopause Friendly employer and working towards accreditation our Menopause Friendly accreditation.
Stonewater reserve the right to bring the closing date forward should enough quality applications be received prior to the current closing date.
To Apply
If you feel you are a suitable candidate and would like to work for Stonewater, please click apply to be redirected to our website to complete your application.
